10 Ways To Conquer Heartbreak (love, breakup, disappointment, healing)

Heartbreak is a profound emotional experience that can shake the very foundation of your existence. It strikes at the core of your vulnerability, leaving you feeling shattered and lost in a sea of despair. The pain of heartbreak can be all-consuming, casting a dark shadow over every aspect of your life to the point of devastating, lasting effects. It is a time of intense sorrow, confusion, and raw emotions that can make us question everything we once held closely.

When someone you love betrays your trust and breaks their commitment to you, it can feel like the world as you know it is crumbling down around you. The sense of betrayal cuts so deep, leaving you with an oozing wound in your heart that seems impossible to heal. The turmoil that follows can be overwhelming, leaving you feeling lost and alone in your pain. It appears that no one can help you get out of this overwhelming darkness. Will the pain ever subside?

During such darkness, it may seem like there is no way out like the pain will never end. But amidst the despair, there is a glimmer of hope, a faint light at the end of the tunnel. It is possible to heal from heartbreak, to emerge from the depths of sorrow stronger and more resilient and better than before.

10 WAYS TO CONQUER HEARTBREAK

To conquer heartbreak and bounce back from this depressive moment, it is essential to take proactive steps towards healing. Here are 10 ways to navigate the stormy waters of heartbreak and emerge on the other side, whole, renewed, and with a glow-up:

1. ALLOW YOURSELF TIME TO GRIEVE

This is an important time at this juncture. The one you gave your heart to has broken it. It may be a time of deep sorrow, anger, resentment, or regret. Let yourself feel the pain and sorrow that comes with heartbreak. It's important not to stuff it in at this time, and please don't go out and seek someone new right away. It will only make you feel worse. It is okay to cry, to scream, to let out all the pent-up emotions. This will help you acknowledge the depth of your emotions and help you to move on in your grieving process.

2. SEEK SUPPORT

Reach out to your support system of high-vibrational friends and family, or seek the assistance of a therapist for support. You have loved ones that care deeply for you. You don't have to go through this alone. Find someone in your circle who can provide a positive outlook on the situation. Choose someone who has a track record of being patient and kind that you can trust with your innermost secrets. Talking about your feelings is a vulnerable process. Find someone you trust who can help you process them and gain perspective on the situation.

3. PRACTICE SELF-CARE

ME! ME! ME! This time is all about you! Do the things that make you happy or bring joy into your life. Go have a spa day, get your hair done differently, go shopping, buy yourself something you love, take bubble baths, buy a new fragrance to smell goods, light some candles, and wear materials that make you feel amazing! This is your time. Do you! Take care of your physical but don't forget about your emotional well-being. Eat well, exercise, get enough sleep, and engage in activities that bring you joy.

4. SET BOUNDARIES

This is a critical step in your journey that you may overlook because your pain is still fresh. Establish boundaries with the person who hurt you to protect yourself from further pain. Don't give in to the urge to call/text /dm or respond to calls/text/dm. Allow time to reveal if this is someone you should further engage with. Chances are if you are reading my blog, you may want to reconsider taking this person back. Avoid anyone who is not gentle with you at this time.

5. FOCUS ON YOURSELF

You are an amazing individual! Sometimes, we lose our way in relationships. We tend to get about the things that once were our main focus. Use this time to rediscover who you are outside of the relationship. It's important to transmute the energy of pain into something positive. Invest in your interests, hobbies, and personal growth.

6. STAY PRESENT

Stop overthinking the situation. Replaying events over and over again in your head will just keep you stagnant. It's time to move forward. You cannot change the past, and you do not know what the future holds. All you have is right now. At this very moment. Dwell in this place. Use your five senses to master this skill. At all costs, avoid dwelling on the past or worrying about the future. Focus on the present moment and take things one day at a time. If you find yourself struggling in this process, do something to take your focus off the situation. Go take a run, draw, do your hair, read a book, watch a funny clip on TikTok or anything that would distract you from overthinking.

7. FORGIVE BUT DON'T FORGET

Forgiveness is a powerful tool for healing, but it does not mean forgetting or condoning the hurtful actions of others. You a precious jewel, a flower, a royal diadem, you deserve to be loved. It is okay to forgive, and let go of the hurt, but never forget what they made you feel like.

8. PRACTICE GRATITUDE

Give thanks for all the good things you have. You have been blessed beyond measure and gratitude assists in ensuring you will continue to be. Cultivate a sense of gratitude for the good things in your life, no matter how small. This can change your life! Gratitude can help shift your perspective and bring positivity into your life.

9. EMBRACE CHANGE

Change is usually the medium that can only be accomplished in the darkest moments of our lives. Embracing change at this juncture will help catapult you into your divine destiny. See this experience as an opportunity for growth and transformation. Embrace the changes that come with healing from heartbreak.

10. BELIEVE IN A BRIGHTER FUTURE

It's time for your glow-up. You have done the hard work up until this point. Have faith that this pain is temporary and that brighter days lie ahead. As long as you are transmuting this energy into something positive, you will start to have more appreciation for what you have created during your darkest moment. Trust in your resilience and ability to overcome adversity and become a victor in life. You will go on to pursue your dreams and aspirations and help other hurting individuals in the process. Trust your journey!

Remember, YOU WILL LOVE AGAIN! Healing from heartbreak takes time and patience. Be gentle with yourself as you navigate this challenging journey towards healing and renewal. Looking forward to seeing your progress!

-BMHP

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